Ep 85: Do This Before You Heal Your Inner Child
Oct 06, 2026In this week’s episode of the iROSE Podcast, host Jodi Rose Gonzales explores inner-child healing through a different lens: before we focus on the younger parts of ourselves that need healing, who is showing up as the parent?
Through a personal story and the concept of “cool parenting,” you’ll explore how the wisdom, resources, and support you carry today can help you meet younger parts of yourself with greater compassion and care—while also honoring the strengths they still have to offer.
Key Takeaways
Consider the parent before focusing on the child.
Inner-child work often begins with the parts of ourselves that feel hurt, frightened, or abandoned. Cool parenting turns the question around, inviting us to first consider the resources and support we bring to the healing process.
Cool parenting is about becoming a source of support for yourself.
You don’t need to have all the answers. By recognizing the wisdom and resources you already carry—and gathering support where you need it—you can meet difficult moments from the perspective of the person you are today.
Your younger selves are more than the summary of their wounds.
Healing also asks for acceptance and humility. The younger versions of yourself carries strengths, wisdom, creativity, and courage of their own. Recognizing what they contributed to the person you are today can become part of the healing process.
Connect With Us
We’d love to hear your reflections on this episode. Share your experience inside the iROSE Society, or connect with us on Facebook or Instagram.
Resources & Links
Guided Meditation on Insight Timer:
Before You Heal Your Inner Child: Guided Meditation & Art Prompt
Make a Donation:
If this work supports you, you’re invited to give back:
https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=DDV9BL8EWTCJS
Join the iROSE Society:
https://www.jodirosestudio.com/society